So we finally got the "OK" from the Canadian government to return to Canada on July 24th...a week after Millie was born. Yay!! After being gone from home for nearly a month, nothing sounded sweeter!! Jaimeson arranged our flights and we took off from Orlando at 6 am on Sunday, July 27th...Millie was 10 days old. Jaimeson and I, as two adults with many frequent flier miles under our belts, were not looking forward to the long day of travel...and could only imagine how difficult it might be with a newborn. We thoroughly planned ahead...making sure Millie's eating/sleeping schedule fit with the take offs and landings of both legs of our flights as well as our layover in Denver. We had heard from many sources the importance of feeding babies upon take off and landing, to avoid painful ear pressure and pops. Anxiously, we boarded our flight (we were able to pre-board, since we now fall into the category of "passengers travelling with small children"), took our seats and got comfortable. We had our bottles ready...our soothers ready...blankets, toys etc. Whatever we "might" need to calm little Millie in the event of an outburst during the flight. Passengers sitting next to and around us sweetly commented "how cute she was" and wanted to know "how old she was." But their expressions showed signs of angst having to be seated next to such a young one. To our amazement, and all those around us, flight attendants included, Millie didn't make a peep. She slept the entire time, on both flights. Incredible! During our 4 hour layover in Denver, Uncle Billy (my brother) coincidentally
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Planes, trains and automobiles
So we finally got the "OK" from the Canadian government to return to Canada on July 24th...a week after Millie was born. Yay!! After being gone from home for nearly a month, nothing sounded sweeter!! Jaimeson arranged our flights and we took off from Orlando at 6 am on Sunday, July 27th...Millie was 10 days old. Jaimeson and I, as two adults with many frequent flier miles under our belts, were not looking forward to the long day of travel...and could only imagine how difficult it might be with a newborn. We thoroughly planned ahead...making sure Millie's eating/sleeping schedule fit with the take offs and landings of both legs of our flights as well as our layover in Denver. We had heard from many sources the importance of feeding babies upon take off and landing, to avoid painful ear pressure and pops. Anxiously, we boarded our flight (we were able to pre-board, since we now fall into the category of "passengers travelling with small children"), took our seats and got comfortable. We had our bottles ready...our soothers ready...blankets, toys etc. Whatever we "might" need to calm little Millie in the event of an outburst during the flight. Passengers sitting next to and around us sweetly commented "how cute she was" and wanted to know "how old she was." But their expressions showed signs of angst having to be seated next to such a young one. To our amazement, and all those around us, flight attendants included, Millie didn't make a peep. She slept the entire time, on both flights. Incredible! During our 4 hour layover in Denver, Uncle Billy (my brother) coincidentally
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Adios y gracias, mis abuelos nuevos!
Each of the 3 trips that we made from Orlando to Stuart, Florida during the month of July was for the planned purpose of introducing my Dad and Jill to their new baby granddaughter, Amelia. But for the first two of them, such was not the case. Adoption is nothing if not a ga
me thing, "Stay positive, dude." And we did. And everything did, in fact, work out in an amazing way for all of us. So today as both kids and parents ourselves, we say thank you to Grandpa Jay and Grandma Jill(ybean!). Thank you for being the best pit crew team that any parents could ask for. And like you've said, Dad, what could be a better birthday gift for your upcoming 60th than a beautiful baby granddaughter who loves you? - Jaimeson
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Unpredictable Skies
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Baby Millie, the greatest gift of all!




On Thursday, July 17th at 5:34am, the most exciting moment of our lives transpired 50 feet from the room where Julie and I slept soundly. Amelia Sky Keegan had been born. Twelve minutes later, after we burst into the delivery room and broke into tears, her Birthmother handed a small ball of life to us and said, "Here's your baby girl."
From the first moment we laid eyes upon her, we were both sure that Little Millie was the most beautiful baby ever. As if reinforcing the fact, the doctor and nurse made similar comments. Julie held our new daughter for ten minutes and then passed her to me. I smiled and laughed and cried as I felt the rush of a new life knock me off my feet. I was a Dad now, and Julie was a Mom.
We had determined the name Amelia Sky in the days and weeks leading up to her birth, but it was cemented following numerous references to both words as we journeyed to, from, and around the Orlando area. Street names, weather patterns and even a TV advertisement made us believers that we had picked something special.
Millie was 7.1 pounds and 20" tall at birth, and in great health. I remember someone in the nursery in the following hours telling us, "You guys must have hit the baby lottery!" We thanked her for the compliment, and said we were most proud of the Birthmother.
In the following days and hours, consent forms would be signed to make Millie our daughter forever. It was an emotionally-saturated whirlwind with the highest of stakes on both ends. Never before had Julie and I been so near to being parents, and yet, never before had either of us been in such a vulnerable emotional state. In the end, our ultimate happiness was delivered in the form of the absolute sacrifice of another human being. We will never forget all of the love that Millie's "Tummy Mommy" had in her heart to make the choice that she did, and to see her promise all the way through. Indeed, we intend to share that story with Millie proudly, so she will know the love that created her and delivered her into our arms and our lives.
For Julie and I, who both have wanted to be parents for longer than we can remember, the journey to be with our daughter, however taxing, already is fading into a distant memory. Millie is now 5 days old, and we are bonding with her in the same way that natural parents bond with their children. For us, each nighttime feeding, diaper changing, and even heartfelt baby cries are the most gratifying and enjoyable moments of our adult lives.
We love you, Millie, and will always be there for you. Welcome to the world.
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